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June 2013

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The unexpected ones are supposed to be true. Now I believe in nothing. Holding only to memories. I thought you’re afraid to lose me. I thought you’re ready to take any risks. But you just let me do all the work. I was in denial thinking we’re both doing the work. I put you on pedestal and you loved it there. I am naive. I should feel angry, runaway, hate you, even attack you with hurtful words. But…what’s the point? I don’t want any regrets that’s why I’m still trying. I am being stupid for still wanting. I still want to believe that this is not the end. I just have a faint light in my heart…if you find it, l know you’ll blow it out…then it will be just darkness and everything is gone forever.

Everyone always says “you deserve better”. What is better? My definition is not the same as anyone else’s. what do I deserve? Someone that’s not you? Isn’t that what you said when you learned about my past? They all left because they are not like you? That I deserve you because you know me better than them? They don’t know how to handle me but you do? And now I deserve to be with someone better than you? It’s like a vicious cycle. Someone who can do more than you can for me? Someone who can hang out with me? Someone who can take me out on dates? Celebrate anniversaries, birthdays, special occasions? Really? Those things will define “better”? I think not. Yea it sucks everything is limited…time spent together…conversations…things we want to do together but so what? It’s not our time to do that. It’s not about my race or my history or my education or my work etc. it’s just time. You rush time it’s pointless. Am I supposed to look for someone who has time for me? What have you been doing then? Nothing’s changed you know. There’s more anger but when do we ever not separate angry at each other? None of us care about each other? If that’s true then why reply? Why see me? Why talk to me? Why ask about my day? Why should I ask about yours? Why do you think I still bother with you when I’ve told you what I’ll be doing by now after ending a relationship? Because you’re different. I am not convinced by your antics that this is the end. You’re not the type of person who gives up easily because it’s hard. This semester for you, 2 courses are raping you. You dropped out yet? No. You used to believe in us but then now since everyone else poisoned you, that’s all you see. But you tell me to stop being negative…who is it this time? Hmm?

I will not let my past define me. I made mistakes and I’ve learned from them. Treat me like a human being not some animal. Respect me just like how I respect you. What I think of you should only matter to you and what you think of me should only matter to me. No one knows about you and me and us except for the ones that WE see in each other, what WE learned from each other.

Just my rant…

Jun 20, 2013
Jun 19, 20131,378 notes
1:35 AM.

mountainhands:

I am half in love
and half in hate
with you.
Its like my left
hand is pushing
you away
and my right is
pulling you in.
My bones are
aching for your
touch, but
my lips
are screaming
leave.
A civil war
in my body
at one am.
and i’m terrified
to find out
who wins.

Jun 18, 2013278 notes

It’s 3:30a I haven’t slept yet. Why can’t I sleep? I don’t feel tired but I know I’ll feel it later on today.

What’s going on? Am I still in shock? :( I shouldn’t be. This is what I deserve…less of everything.

Please…I need to sleep. I want to sleep. I don’t like being awake. I just want the days to end sooner now but that’s impossible when I can’t fall asleep…

Jun 18, 2013
Jun 18, 201330,761 notes

Deep inside I am raging right now. Numbness because of shock. I’ve been asking for this for months right? I got what I want now.

Keep silent. Everything will be bottled up. Can I say anything? I’d rather not. Keep this vague…people will ask. It doesn’t matter. I was just a trial.

Maybe that was the reason why I went to White Rock today.

Nothing. Just meant to be nothing.

Tomorrow’s agenda: Throw everything that means something away…

Jun 18, 2013
Jun 18, 20131,823 notes

14 months

Jun 14, 2013

TRU sent me an email saying they printed my parchment (my diploma) for the diploma in management in HR major yesterday. I should be receiving it in the mail. But I’m not sure if I’ll be walking across the stage in October since I applied for that. If not then I can do that next year in October after I completed my B. Comm HRM 😊 I’m so happy right now. I asked my dad if he can put it on the wall beside my brother’s stuff too and he said “yea, line it up”. I didn’t see the email until I got home tonight. I couldn’t check my blackboard using my phone. Such great news. Saturday is celebration time!!

Btw, still don’t know what to do for my birthday on the 28th… 😕

Jun 13, 2013

F taking a nap right now even though I have a massive headache and I know I need it but I need to be productive. Finished one assignment. This summer is just too depressing and discouraging. At least I’m not getting sick yet before my birthday which happens every year!!

Job hunting. Studying. Listening to music.

Jun 11, 2013

Work was slow today. Made my first panini today. The bacon tomato one, some flat bread breakfast, and few other grilled cheese paninis. I learned today that you can order half a panini. Should’ve known since I can’t finish the whole thing. I actually like the oatmeal too. More brown sugar haha next time I’ll add milk because it’s really thick and it’ll cool faster. Our sandwich unit is always not working properly and it’s been weeks. I heard we might get a new unit because we’re losing customers plus I want to learn to make the other sandwiches too.
Still a good day. Could be better but tomorrow’s another day 😊

Jun 11, 2013
Jun 10, 2013
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Jun 10, 2013

It’s true that the ones close to you are the ones that hurt you the most.
They discourage you, call you stupid, and make you feel so low about yourself. You wonder why you’re even with these people.

Then you meet people who doesn’t know you in a deep way, I guess. They just met you and they are eager to know what you do and what you’re aspiring to be. These people are the ones that randomly gives encouragement to you or just ends up saying the right things at the moment when you need it most.

But…once those people get close to you…well you know the cycle.

Yea my day sucked. What a great way to start the week eh? Tired from work. Go home and study. I don’t ask much but sometimes just a little something to cheer me up or let me know that I’m trying my best and just a little encouragement would be nice once in a while. I can only do so much from myself too keep my spirits up when I feel down. A little help from people that “cares” about me would be nice.

Jun 10, 2013

Hope you don’t get discouraged to try again because of communication. If you give up then I’ll see it and then I wouldn’t put any effort anymore because I see that you’ve given up already.

I just wanted a few hours to relax that’s all. Maybe try again another time when you want to this time and not just because of me?

Jun 8, 2013
Jun 6, 2013
THE relationship

In my experience, it exist. I feel happy. I don’t look like I’m on drugs because I lost weight because of a stressful relationship. I don’t look so tired because I feel like I’m taking care of a child instead of being in a relationship where 2 people work together. I get excited when I see a message from him or when my Skype ring once and he’s there and first thing he ask “how’s your day?” Lol he knows my stories are always long and detailed so he let me start then I remember I should let him tell me his day since he doesn’t give so much details and it’s always short and I find it cute and funny.
Just that feeling you get that it just makes your day. Like some people say home or they have a go to place to relax but mine is after work until I go to sleep just talking or just having his company is good.

Things you go through in life doesn’t define a person. You learn from your mistakes and never repeat it. You don’t hurt the same person over and over because of your insecurities (working on it). But you just know the person. You just meet this person that you just click with. The “zing” that you feel just like what in the move hotel Transylvania (I think that’s what it’s called). It’s like both people just get hit by a rainbow or something good and it feels good. That’s how I feel right now. Why fight against something good?

I never have to act as a different person. I’ve always been myself since the beginning. But I am more open in certain things ;) (he knows :P) but then that’s not everything. That’s a bonus. What’s so good about it is that time pass by so quickly like it was just yesterday. I’ve never felt like this before with anyone. This time is different and I feel like a noob and I like it. Learn from the mistakes, learn from every arguments, fights, etc. and learn from each other.

A perfect guy? Please ladies, there’s no such thing. Definition of perfect guy is the one that you see their imperfections as perfect. That’s just how it is. You don’t need to change anyone and you don’t need to change for anyone. They’ll accept you for you because he or she loves you. When they are hurt, they will say anything to hurt you back because they need to feel better. Best thing is that when you know the person and not just what you know but you know the person in a deeper level then you can tell from what they are saying that they are hurt so they have the wall up. I know how to go over his wall when I need to :) I have the ropes and last time I had to go over the same wall I made marks so it’s easier to climb :D that’s how much I know him. If I just sit and wait for that wall to come down on it’s own, well the person will be gone because you never made an effort to see and help the person on the other side.

You’ve all heard don’t cry for someone worth crying for and you’re not supposed to cry over some guy because he’s leaving. But when you’re hurt, tears just flow because there are no words to describe that feeling of pain.

Lots of skeptics in the world. Who wouldn’t? I know I’m one. Been through so much so can’t help it but doubt why someone comes along and just makes you feel complete. But the thing is every time, every fight, every argument, every time we ignore each other it doesn’t last more than 12 hours or so. But then just that one of the phrases he says to me and I just feel so much better. Not going to say it here then everyone will know. That’s just between us.

What I’m trying to say is relationships take lots of work and people give up easily. If I give up now because it’s starting to get really hard and too much work. Wouldn’t it be worth it in the end to say that “we lasted this many years babe!” I was excited for our first anniversary like to me, it’s such a big deal. Taking the easy way is for cowards. I think I’m brave enough to show my face to a family who doesn’t like me and I took every criticism and never acted ill upon them. You hurt the family, you hurt the person you love…that’s my logic.

Everything takes time. You can’t rush into things because if you do then it wouldn’t show your best work. Always love yourself and people deserve good things to happen to them. Worry about only crucial things and everything else just let it go. Never test a relationship to see if the other person will return if it’s meant to be. The unexpected relationships are the best ones I believe. When you stop chasing and stop looking, something will come to your path and then you notice it and you tell yourself “where have you been?” :) that’s what I call THE relationship. It’s the one I love to be part of and nothing can replace that. This is the puzzle piece that I feel have been missing from me. I would never want any other.

Perfect guy? Perfect relationship? Perfect everything? No, no, and no. Your knight comes when you need to be rescued. You’re a princess because your Prince Charming arrived. A priceless gem because you can’t be compared to anything else because you’re unique to someone’s eyes. So again, don’t look, don’t want, be patient. Same concept, you find something when you’re not looking for it :)

Jun 3, 20131 note
#relationships #halo #love #princess #knightinshingingarmour #pricelessgem
Jun 1, 2013

May 2013

13 posts

Remember the roses I got from you? I took one and I started removing the petals one by one and the last petal says, “he loves me.”

May 28, 2013
May 26, 2013
May 23, 20131 note
Feedback!!

Finally got the feedback I needed yesterday from my coworkers lol. 3 different views and showed where do they see my weaknesses are.
I had to do an SAQ for my leadership class and after doing the questionnaires, at first I thought this is weird and that’s not me. But after asking for feedback (really hard because I tend to get defensive) it’s obvious that I have to improve on certain areas. Why can’t this course be mandatory instead of a requirement for another course? Just sucks I want to do more and start getting experience in this field but I can’t seem to find one company that’s willing…

Anyways, while waiting for the feedbacks I decided to start on my BBUS 3031 assignment…just need to finish part 2 of the assignment then I can hand it in. Oh and I finished reading the M2T2 reading requirement…that was pretty interesting. I think my last post is about journalling and I did that and reading it after was so confusing because it was all over the place lol But I was told that’s how it is. Tomorrow I will start participating maybe start my day at 8 instead so I can have more things done.
My goal is to hand in all the A1s for all 3 classes this weekend…doable since I’ve done it last semester when I make my own strict deadlines lol

I’ve been feeling really lazy lately. It’s like I work better under so much pressure. I keep forgetting I’m going to spend a weekend in July in Vegas and it’ll be stupid to bring all my books with me to study during the day…so maybe I should push myself and finish 3 modules for each classes in 5 weeks? Each class has 5 or 6 modules and all 3 classes have 4-5 assignments each.

Block exams soon so I need to keep myself occupied too or else I’ll just get annoyed like last time because I can’t talk.

Maybe I should eat something…only had breakfast today…

May 23, 2013
Journalling?!?

Why do I need to do this in all 3 of my classes? I think I’m doing this right now here but it’s not useful or anything to do with my school stuff.

This is my way of procrastinating. Bad habit. Now I have to read a book called “How to think like Leonardo da Vinci” for my Open Thinking class :/ This is probably a bad course to take right now. Makes me over-think stuff now and get in trouble.

One good advice I got this morning…don’t try too hard.

May 22, 2013
May 20, 2013
May 16, 2013

Finally finished my final exams. I hope I pass both exams because I don’t want to repeat a semester and that’ll just hold me back from my plan on graduating next year 😔

Tomorrow 3 new classes starts but still waiting for my books.

Tuesday… working on Election Day.

This is going to be an interesting summer.

May 13, 2013
May 13, 2013

Brother got this gadget where it tells you you’re body fat %age and bmi…mine is 7.8% and 16.6 respectively. I do eat!

May 11, 2013

Can’t sleep. Had few hours of nap time via Skype with bf because we’re cool like that 😁

Reviewed a bit for one of my exam on Sunday and tomorrow gonna do some hardcore cramming.

I will come out of my hiding after Sunday at 4:00 pacific time. That’s the expected time I’ll be done my last exam. I think it’s going to rain on Sunday so better not wear my Toms so it doesn’t get ruined 😊

Don’t know what happened to my week. Weather was great. But something’s missing. Yes cheesy but can’t help it.

If only I can be as close to you as possible. I know I’ll be less sad and lonely. But then the universe hates me so I have to suffer. Girls always suffer and get disappointed 😔

I guess I’ll just have to resort to pictures and conversations.

Good night everyone that’s still up. Good morning everyone that’s just getting up.

May 11, 2013
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April 2013

20 posts

I just realized that I get more upset from expecting from someone who doesn’t have the capability to meet my expectations. But then if someone have the capability to meet my expectations, i get upset because of their stupidity. Makes sense? In my head it does but here it doesn’t 😅
But then again, I’m happy with what I have.

One day it’ll be different…at least that’s what I’m told.

Apr 28, 2013
Apr 28, 20132,810 notes
Apr 28, 2013

Never get your hopes up. Never expect anything from anyone. If you want things done…do it yourself. Your own self is more reliable than others. When will I ever learn…

Apr 24, 2013

My family thinks I’m just bad luck. I don’t understand what’s going on with me…
This morning I woke up with a fever and still showered. Ignored every calls or messages because my throat is just too painful. Then if I want to feel better I just went under my blanket and try to sweat it out. It helped. I felt much better. But then now, I’m starting to shake again like the temperature in my room is below 0. Window is closed and I’m under my blanket and I’m still shaking. Do I need food or need sleep? I’ve been sleeping all day trying to make myself better.

What is going on??

Apr 23, 2013

He’ll be home soon…

Apr 23, 2013

I don’t wanna see you!! I’m not ready! It’ll feel like I just met you and you’re just a guy that I just started falling for and I’m going to be awkward and weird and starts blabbering none sense because I’m too nervous. I’m weird, I know. But I’m not ready to see you just yet. But then again, you’re stubborn and it’s always your way 😱

I’ve known him for couple years, dating for one year and I still act like it’s some kind of crush every time I see him that I try so hard to fight my feelings for him. I’m so retarded 😁

Apr 18, 2013

How do you know when someone tells you that they will not leave you that they are being honest? What if they are just saying that because they think that’s what you want to hear? What if they think that’s what they will do “now” then later on their mind will change? What do you do then?

IF you don’t question someone’s intention and just believe everything you’re told and you start caring so much and be happy and then they disappear? Wouldn’t you feel so angry for the wasted time? What if that happened to you so many times and someone comes along and says the same thing…would you believe this person? If 4/5 people told you before that they will never leave but did, how should you react to this person now?

I feel bad for the girls who’s gotten their hearts broken so many times and they end up believing that’s all they deserve and someone comes along and wants to change that belief. That fear of getting your heart broken again and loving someone and starting all over again is scary. BUT, however many times someone fall on the ground, always get back up. Even though it’s hard, trying to get back up is an achievement already. If you don’t get back up, you never know, maybe there’s someone who had their hand out waiting for you to take to help you get up.

Apr 15, 2013
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Apr 15, 201331,877 notes
The day has come :)

One year babe! But it doesn’t even feel that long. I think I care more about this than anything and it’s not just another date on a calendar. It’s also Tamil New Year. Your birthday is new year and then our anniversary is your new year…what is this shenanigan! :P

It was full of events that made us happy, sad, in pain, angry, frustrated, neglected, clingy, and most importantly, in love :)
May long weekend I went camping with you. In June you graduated and the person that gave me earrings as a birthday present. July…what happened? August…September…October…November we found out you’re accepted to med school. December spent as much time together as possible before I left for my visit to Cali. In January once I returned, only spent a few hours with you before you left. February…valentine’s…overall it was the best valentine’s I’ve ever had. March…now April. Everything else in between brought us to this day. Such an emotional year. Even just trying to recall memories brings tears of joy and sadness.

We pushed limits. Both stubborn. Both opposites of each other. You make the days go by faster, the weekend to come faster, and the months to move to the next. A call from you each day is what I always look forward to.

I don’t remember the day specifically when you first told me you love me or when I did. 2 things that I’ll never forget is when we kissed outside that pub. I know I told you before what it was like for me :P and second is when I told you I wanna see you because of the days we haven’t had sleep (you had to deal with a gas tank I think that day) and you showed up and spent a few minutes with me and just held me and before you left me you said we’ll get through it. We always do, don’t we? :)

We’ll celebrate later since we’re both busy. Promise me we will celebrate because it means a lot to both of us.I’m excited for the second year!! :) I love you purushan. I miss you. I can’t wait to see you soon.

Apr 14, 20131 note
2 more days!!!

I’m excited but same time can’t really think more into it because I have lots of studying to do 😭

Not putting same effort as the Christmas and birthday because of time…I guess I didn’t manage my time properly or I’m not expecting it to happen. Still this is exciting! 😁🎉☺

Apr 12, 2013
6 days and counting...

This is exciting for me and the other person. But I think more exciting for the other one but it’s going to be so cute for sure :)

Apr 8, 2013

I think I’m meant to have blonde hair :D Maybe I’m not even supposed to look like I’m Filipino…hmmm

My dad saw my hair, I have to tell him, he said it looks ugly. He always say that though whenever I do something different with my hair.

I love it! It’s like chocolate and white chocolate swirl on my head just like me and my bf ;)

Apr 6, 2013

Going to try blonde highlights today 😱 in the process…if I look like a retard later I’ll dye it back to one color…wish me luck!!

Apr 5, 2013
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Now I’m so sleepy and I haven’t started work yet. Stupid idea sleeping for only couple hours!! Hate you english paper!

Apr 3, 2013

I thought it’s going to be a good day. Make up for yesterday. Then it’s just like the other days. Couple hours of conversations then several hours of feeling like you’re an attraction at a zoo. I can’t wait what tomorrow will bring…

Apr 3, 2013
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